by itsatrap123 copied from Reddit This is a throwaway account so as to not tipoff my SO. We’re both mid thirties, professional, successful, divorced parents. We’re also engaged to be married pretty soon. We have what I thought to be a wonderful relationship, lots of talking, bonding, straightforward emotional exchanges, no trust issues, and great, frequent sex. However, and here is where things take a turn, it has recently come to my attention that the frequent sex part of the equation may have been a ruse. Things have been hectic lately, and I had been getting a weird vibe from her, so I point blank asked her a few things about our sex life, and I don’t like what I heard. She has sex with me quite often out of a feeling of duty. She has grown attracted to me, but does not find me “inherently attractive”. I’m not her “type”, apparently. What I am, I think, is safe, as her family wouldn’t be too happy about her seriously dating or heaven forbid marrying her “type”. She says that she is...